I am in awe of my Grandmother's contributions to this Universe. During
most of her adult years, she was instrumental in building and enriching
communities - both culturally and socially. She composed, sang and also
played the well known Indian instruments harmonium and esraj in a
Bengali community band nestled within the amazing grace of the mighty
Himalayas. As an ardent social worker, she established a women's
organization that made and sold beautiful hand-knit/woven products, and
hosted local cultural events. They taught their art to others, enabling a
whole generation of local women to be independent, and created a
beautiful community of amazingly generous and conscious women in a world
still dominated by men.
My Grandmom did all this while raising two children, one of them
physically handicapped, who themselves are blessed with kind hearts. She
supported her family physician husband, who indirectly contributed to
and supported her social and cultural contributions. As if this wasn't
enough, she also raised one of her grandchildren as her own.
I've seen this quiet, yet fiercely independent leader among women
transition from constantly looking for ways to give and grow others, to
becoming partially and now completely dependent on others for her
physical well-being.
Kalyani (my Grandmother) Senior Services, doing business as
Always Best Care Senior Services
will provide the kind of loving and compassionate care that her
daughter (my Mother), son, a few close family members and some wonderful
care givers have been providing for her over the past several years. We
will create certainty, hope and a sense of belonging that I've seen and
felt my Grandmum long for (and I believe our aging seniors do as well
in this globally connected yet distant world), as her body gave up after
years of catering to her demands on it, so she could make a massive
difference in this world. She had been born into a family of renowned
historians, physicians, and thought leaders. Is this my way of
continuing her legacy? Maybe.